Your boyfriend dumped you and you don't know why. You might blame yourself for the breakup, but if you didn't cheat or tell frequent lies, you should be able to get your ex back. Right now, you would do nearly anything to have him back, but that feeling might be caused by loneliness. You love him and do not want to spend your future without the man you love.
You think that if you could just explain how much you need him in your life, he would want you again. However he has rejected all of your attempts to communicate with him. The fact that he won't communicate with you could be a good thing. It will prevent you from begging and losing your pride and dignity. Telling him you need him will not do any good. To get him back you have to make him see he needs you and regret dumping you.
Your ex boyfriend will not feel the need for you or regret the breakup until he has time to experience his life without you. This could take a few weeks, but to you it will feel like almost a lifetime. You will be afraid to leave him alone because you think he will find someone else. However, he wouldn't have dumped you if he still wanted to be with you.
The best thing you can do is accept the breakup and let him have time to see that he needs you in his life. By not trying to get him back, you will show him that you have the strength to make a life without him. Showing a man that you don't need him can make him sit up and take notice. Your guy will think that If you were able to let him go so easily, he doesn't appeal to women as much as he thought he did.
Your ex boyfriend will also feel the need to see if you still love him. Once the doubts begin to appear in his mind, he will realize he misses you. Your ex will remember the things you did together and start to regret dumping you. When your man begins to doubt his actions, he will remember how you used to listen to him and give him compassion.
This is why you have to ignore your ex boyfriend after he dumps you. It will cause him to start having the same feelings you had at the time he dumped you. By not contacting him, you will make him feel rejected and he will have to take some action to heal his pride. The action your ex will take will be to contact you. It will probably begin with a text. However, you should not answer him.
To get your ex boyfriend back and teach him not to play games with your heart, you have to push his emotional hot buttons to the limit. Make him think you are gone for good and he will wake up at night dreaming of seeing you in another man's arms. Soon, he will throw away his male pride and come back on his knees, telling you how much he needs you in his life.
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